As they say.
My children are boomerangs...
Prepair your self ladys, if you don't have this problem, there is a 50 percent chance you will in the future.
How odd is this phrase - The meaning for a boomerang is that you throw it; it goes out and then returns to you . I guess we all raise our children to be boomerangs all the time -when they are young. we send them everywhere and we do want them to return, but when they are adults,we send them out to live independently - and you never plan to have them return home again. At least not to live.
When they boomerang back home , it can put stress on us all, because as much as we love our children - we all know the reasons they boomerang home it is because of problems they encountered.
And they expect us to bail them out. When you have a son almost 23 that boomerangs home constantly. And when he returns home, both him and his father seems to think you should be his maid. And, he becomes a messy toddler again.
Not really, but it seems that way.
It can really put a lot of stress on your marriage.
I mean "Oh my god" he's not a baby. He is a grown man that should have responsibility's.
And don't even get me started on our daughter. She claims to be a strong independent 24 year old single mother. That refuses to come home to let us help with the baby.
But, continuously she call mommy & daddy for money.
And being, what he thinks is the perfect father.
He rushes to send it to her. Even if it puts us in a bind.
I am at the point. I want to divorce them all.
Don't get me wrong, I love my husband very much.
And I will always love my children.
But it seems more and more every day,
I am disappearing in my own house.
I am constantly being told to let it go. She will grow up one day.
And when it comes to my needs they always have to wait.
Because money is to tight.
I mean the last time I bought clothes was when he was in Iraq.
And then it was necessities.
I have tried talking to him. He don't want to hear it.
Because I am the one that's wrong.
Please tell me, Is it me ? am I the evil Bitch... They all say I am.
All I want is to grow old with my husband.
I have spent to many years waiting for this time in our life.
I need advice !!! Any suggestions ? Please help....